Four things to keep in mind during the engagement period

The engagement period is one of the most important periods during which each party recognizes the characteristics and disadvantages of the partner of life, and on the basis of which they determine their way together. However, there are some mistakes in which the two parties negatively affect their engagement and their future marital life, for example:
First :
Each party in the stage of engagement does not appear in its true form to the other party, which of course has a negative impact on their relationship because each party does not show the other the disadvantages and different positions, which leads to the negative impact in the future in their marital life and the appearance of personal unusual in the stage of engagement
Therefore, our advice to you is that honesty and clarity are your way in the engagement stage
Second :
The engagement phase requires each party to be honest and honest with the other but honesty and honesty must also be cautious
For a young man: It is nice to tell his fiancée about his previous experiences before he knows Haulecken with caution to not tell each and every one of them because the girl is inherently jealous and this can affect the future of your relationship. It is most beautiful to start your relationship with her clearly and honestly without addressing the mistakes that occurred in you earlier
And for a girl: You have to be careful in every matter you do not discuss the stories of the people directly or to address the stories of admire her to offer her speech or others because these things can affect the look of your future fiance
Third :
Parental intervention: You should assess the advice of the parents based on their experience, but from the beginning, put an end to the intervention of parents and do not let them interfere in the problems that occur between you so as not to grow things and learn to solve your problems yourself without interference ...
Fourthly :
You must always keep in mind that the engagement period is a corridor for reaching marriage. This corridor must be solid and based on strong foundations. Do not leave things exposed to surprises. You must discuss all future plans for your home, your children, your life together and your financial and social life. A double list of Asi is a solid list of affection and compassion
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): "And among His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, to dwell in them, and to make between you affection and mercy."

• 18 May, 2018
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