Key questions in the engagement period

The engagement period is very important as a stage of acquaintance and exploring whether my life partner, the fiancé and the fiancée, are suitable for each other or not. Today, the Muslim Marriage website presents you with an article in which the six most important questions or information you should know in the first encounters of the young man and woman who want to connect to each other for marriage.

Question 1 (What does marriage mean to you?)
Is it for procreation and the joy of children or independence, or parks and trips ?? The answer to these questions varies according to different characters and patterns. Such a question reveals a lot about personality, which is one of the important questions in the first meetings so that the two sides can know each other.
Where there is a story of a married woman in which she said that she was surprised after a period of marriage that her husband had married in order to meet his sexual needs and has no respect for his wife and does not bear any of the responsibilities of the house and children, but cast his wife.
One of the couples says he was surprised after the marriage that his wife had married only for children and to be a mother and this husband has many problems with his wife. Therefore, the young man and the girl must ask such questions, which will clarify a lot about partner or partner life. This understanding helps to further understanding and family stability.
Question 2 (What is your future ambition and what are your goals in life?)
Every human being in this life wishes to achieve in his life in several areas such as social, academic, physical and other areas of life. Therefore, you should ask such questions to the interlocutor and the betrayer to make the future vision close to each other and clear to both parties what he wants in the future. The more their aspirations and aspirations are the same, the less marital differences will be in the future.
Question 3: When is the ideal time to have children?
Dear young men and women who are coming to marry The issue of having children is undoubtedly one of the core issues in married life. There are many cases of disintegration and separation resulting from reproductive problems. Therefore, the couple must agree on this issue so as not to be a cause of marital problems in the future so the couple to find the right time if in the first year or after and not to be influenced by pressure of parents if any and deal with it as much diplomacy as possible.
Question 4: What qualities do you want to be in your life partner?
It is good that the preacher and the preacher speak about their feelings and what they like and what they hate in their future partner. Such dialogues contribute to the understanding of the other party more and whether the other party is appropriate or not.
Question 5 (How do you spend your free time and what are your identities?)
The more you recognize the other party whenever the decision is easy and easy to choose, and knowing what a person loves in his free time reveals a lot about the personality of the suitor or the fiancé. And can be considered as a determinant or criterion for their ambition and future outlook.
Question 6 (Do you have any voluntary charity activities?)
Taqwa and development work and charity, which work without charge, which is called volunteering all of this, if found young or young, is a positive sign in their personalities. A person who works good and without charge is most likely a decent, active and knowledgeable person. Such information about a young man or girl helps in making the decision to marry.

• 13 May, 2018
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