Reasons to escape marriage
Today we often find a good number of people who are not thinking of marriage, and never think about it, even though marriage is the year of life. This is something we notice in our Arab societies, and there must be reasons for taking this decision. The reasons for the nature of the person itself, or the result of what happened to him and the reason for the psychological pain caused him to make this decision, may be different. marriage" . For the full reasons, follow the next line.
1. Lack of preparedness
There are many requirements for marriage, and most of the young people find it difficult to meet these requirements, such as the dowry, the house, etc. These reasons are imposed on the young man not to marry with his desire, and some are not ready for married life and assume responsibilities and love to live for himself only without any responsibilities or Other burdens are always echoed: "I do not think now about the association and the formation of a family" and then the rejection of the young man even if the requirements of marriage available to him. This may be the case for girls, especially female workers. :
2. Failure in previous relationships
The failure in previous relationships casts a shadow over the psyche of the young man and the girl. They are afraid of repeating the matter again and they have a knot of attachment for fear of what the days might bring them in the future. Their failed experience has lost them confidence in the people around them and in themselves. A barrier to their wishes. If they felt attracted to someone, they would drive out the feeling and fight it inside so that it does not happen again, and it is difficult to convince them to change the idea.
3. Partner Age:
Some people find it difficult to find the partner of their lives that they dream of. Every one of us wants to spend the rest of his life with people of certain qualities and specifications he dreams of, especially that marriage is a sacred link in all the heavenly religions. It happens that man does not find the right person for him and sees the deficiency in all human beings which is normal, there is no one who is only full of God and thus play the person of marriage to find all the qualities that dreamed in the partner of life.
Experiences of friends and associates:
The experiences of friends and close friends play an important role throughout our lives. It is natural for a person to feel fear and reluctance to form a family and build a married life based on what he has heard over the years from the experiences of others. These reasons are sufficient to plant Fear and hesitation towards this serious step in life.
The end of marriage is the year of life and the year of God in the universe and a key factor in the continuation of life on earth and will not be lost to the human race Every person suffering from a reason or a problem that reviews his ideas and stands with himself a sincere pause to put an end to these reasons to rejoice and enjoy life.
- 10 Apr, 2018
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