Search for girl muslim
If you get married and you are in any place or family gathering or even a group of young friends and mention the subject of marriage Ftaibi Htlaki Bjul is the most beautiful girl .. No halal girls .. Girls halal finished time ... Camels hesitate to hear almost every day and possible Have a common dialogue in all youth sessions.
Although everyone is convinced that girls are kitters, you also find them convinced that the daughters of halal were extinct from time.
The question remains where is the girl? Where do I find the girl?
How to find the girl of the Muslim especially that the search for a bride and the girl is not easy subject and a simple dialogue, but if we identified certain points we can go beyond the subject and become easy to find.
These points include the following:
First :
It is the right of every young man to draw the image of a girl dreams and sets specific specifications for the girl who likes to be associated with, but at the same time must be suitable and acceptable specifications and the young man needs to know is Mahtaj A and Beyheb A to decide whether this girl suitable for him and his personality or not ??
Second :
Young people must know that there is no perfect human being. This means that there is no perfect girl in everything, nor is he as a young man who is perfect, but the young man must be preoccupied with the idea of perfection because perfection is for God alone. Which can coexist or not ??
Third :
Every young man has to get rid of his negative idea about girls and that there are no girls and halal and they lend .. These ideas often move to him from friends through the experiences of a failed link or possible young man himself has experienced a bet and failed to have in his mind a negative idea of girls and therefore not true The generalization of the idea and of course requires the young man to give himself a new opportunity to get rid of the effects of any previous experience before thinking about looking for a girl.
And from the above, the definition of the outline of the steps of choice .. But how can I search for a girl on a sound basis? And what are the conditions that must be available in the girl to be called a girl?
Including the following conditions:
Debt :
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: "A woman is allowed to marry her (for her beauty), her wealth, her religion, her religion, her religion, her religion and her religion." Religion is a very important factor and can be the most important condition in the girl to whom she is associated. God is taking care of you and your home and the reservation of your offer, religion is the origin of the whole life right.
Good manners :
The Messenger of Allah (r) said: "If he comes to you from the satisfaction of his creation and religion, then marry him."
Parity:
It is in terms of social, cultural, educational and other, and the existence of common areas between the spouses leading to understanding and ten good.
Abdullah:
The Messenger of Allah (r) said: "Look at it, it is more important to be destroyed between you" is a very important condition when acquaintance to search for a girl.
And in the end there is no unified way you can find the dream girl you dream of, but what is important is that everyone determines what they need in the girl they are talking about? And the criteria that make it as a halal from his point of view?
The young man may not be able to meet the appropriate girl, perhaps his limited relationship with his knowledge and relatives or colleagues at work.
Therefore, young people should be keen to strengthen their social relationship with those around them to make it easier for them to search for the girl who wants them in their future lives.
There are also sites of marriage respectable through which the young man looking for the girl that is on the subject of which he can understand with them and indeed the subject has developed in many cases for a formal link with taking into account all the criteria that we mentioned before we can choose the right way and in a simple way.
- 12 May, 2018
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