Sensitivity is one of the most important factors in marriage
There is a real reality that must be secured by all the lovers coming to marry is that love is not enough to set up a strong marriage base is not affected by the wind and love alone is not enough for the stability of marital life does not guarantee long-term stability, but it requires a lot of understanding and patience and self-denial and most importantly it needs For a great deal of tenderness, which should be extended by the wife to her husband as granted by God Almighty of this gift more than a man of dozens of times and it is normal to exchange her husband Hananha affectionately how much of her wife loved her but because she is poor in showing her tenderness and because it failed to move her feelings it was Natural does not feel love It is known that the stability of the relationship between men and women can be achieved only by the successful feelings in the intimate communication and mutual respect and common interest and the ability to overcome selfishness until they reach a high degree of tender that has no limits and The main condition is that there be a consensus between the spouses in particular values and principles and in life in general, which we know (human beauty) and marriage protected by tenderness and governed by the intimate feelings based on total acceptance of the other and continue longevity, whatever its shortcomings and disadvantages and affection makes the relationship His marital relationship is eternal, historical and continuous, and it is enough to find a woman in her late years. However, her beautiful features are not changed, because she is blessed with her affection for her husband and for those around her. The feelings of love alone are not enough, they are uncontrolled feelings, there is no stability for her while the tender feelings are deep, intimate and stable. Say her eye and hand and embody facial features.
Delight is more important than beauty
The tenderness is not more important than just love in the success of marriage is also more important than beauty. The beauty may push people to attract and exchange admiration at the beginning of acquaintance and may push many men to marry women simply dazzle with their beautiful beauty, but most of these marriages, which depend on the choice of beauty alone is doomed to failure and do not last long beauty beauty is not fit to be a basis In a healthy or strong relationship successful marriage based on the depth of personal and human wealth and when such marriages are made owners are like those who live in a barren place not planted or water, they understand the grievance of the torment they live and from their lack of tenderness and tenderness and when looking at the alive They are missing the positive attitudes and the constant complaint of the psychological unit, but cry for the error of their choice of the beauty of the years they were associated with them often without a spiritual basis and without understanding or communication so it is unable to give or bestow the tenderness needed by the human in every stage of life more than Which was accepted by the scientists have known beauty as an external appearance of the phenomenon is often revealed after a period of time varies from one person to another and habitual habituation and often reduce the value of the manifestations of the manifestations of the image and consolidate and strengthen all what they have seen and what we see beautiful may vary in vision from one person to another and As you get used to seeing Today it does not become new to us, and we may see it otherwise tomorrow. Proof of this is that we often find a woman who is so beautifull that her husband does not feel her beautiful beauty after a period of marriage. He lets her marry a woman less beautiful than her and may not be beautiful at all but she has a beauty of another kind It is the beauty of the soul enveloped in the cards of tenderness and her husband is so happy with her to the extent that it surprises others to wonder: Why leave the beautiful and chose from the less beautiful and markedly? The answer: that compassion is something that stems from the depth of personality and can be considered the strongest bond that can connect between humans in general and couples in particular and is the strongest foundation upon which most successful marriages can be built sound.
And compassion is more important than money
Marriage that is based on tenderness stronger and stronger than marriage, which depends on the greed in the money Many couples who were associated with wives do not have any feelings of passion for their money, we find them in the cafes with their friends late at night fleeing from their homes frosty and frost free of warmth and tenderness The same applies to the case of wives and is not informed of the warning of our ancestors to such a marriage when they said: (Okhokd monkey on his money and money goes to prefer the monkey as it is).
Money may have its first attractiveness in choosing a man for his wife or vice versa. It may be important in some age stage, but it does not establish successful marital homes and does not strengthen the depth of communication between couples. Therefore, most marriages based on greed in money often end in failure, The economic needs of husband or wife
Hence women are recommended to make your home a great place of love, which is dominated by love, affection, calm and harmony, and because women are the most beautiful creatures of God with their tenderness and give it must be given more than what it takes to create it God and to know that her family is fortress fortified to keep it so as not to fall into the hands of enemies and not found Protecting what is better than embracing her family and making more compassion and attention When the house turns into a oasis of tenderness and becomes a house attractive and become the outside world repellent and enough to say the husband to his friends and acquaintances: (I have become to find my rest only in my house).
There is an equivalence known by many intelligent wives who say: a pleasant wife in a warm house = a happy married life that lasts longevity ..
- 16 May, 2018
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