Husband stingy marital disaster
Abstinence is a psychological illness, a kind of lack of sense of safety and causes deprivation in the young and cruelty and perhaps the person himself selfish does not like giving.
What about the pair of scoundrel ?? And if God is plagued by a scrawny husband who hates spending on his home and family and loves collecting money ??
Many wives live a miserable life because of their poor husband and it is difficult to separate, especially if they have children and women go to work also cause of the husband's spindly, depend on them in spending and saves his money to feel the safety he lacks, and requires the wife intelligence deal with this husband may turn For someone who is careful and easy to deal with later.
And you, wife, a set of tips to deal with your husband, a scoundrel to facilitate life with him, including:
Always treat your husband as a small child who lacks a feeling of safety and always give your husband the tenderness that he lacks and treats him well and always gives him confidence in himself.
When you need money from him he chooses the right time for it, if he refuses to withdraw quietly without resorting to quarrels with him.
Do not ask him for money during his anger either from you or from anything else, repeat your request on another day and inform him that you need money is necessary.
After a romantic session between you or watching television and laughter and atmosphere of national fun asked him what you need, good mood stimulates the hormone generosity.
I always remember his good qualities, and you always feel that he is the best man and that he has the qualities of masculinity and honor to give him the sense of self-confidence and safety he lacks.
Do not describe him foolishly whatever it is and no matter how angry you are, but tell him that you know and appreciate that if he had the money to give you what you need from him.
If the husband refuses to increase the household expenses, let him come down with you to the market to see for himself the increase in prices, and it is necessary to increase the expenses of the house for the benefit of his family, perhaps with time turns your husband from a stingy person to a sensitive person easy to deal with.
Finally, we must deal with the husband who is miserly realistically and logically because the deceived man is a real person.
Regarding the vinegar in Islam:
The husband must realize that in the case of immorality and lack of spending on his family, he violates the law of God and commits sin.
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: "No day will the worshipers in it only two kings come down and say one of them God gave a successor successor and say another Oh God gave holding damage" Believe the Messenger of God.
- 12 May, 2018
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