Ten things enjoyed by the ideal parents

Ideal parents are the path of their children to an ideal life so here are ten things enjoyed by the idealists:
1. Have a special vision for the future of their children and how they make it great
The future of your son is all that occupies your mind and thinking, especially after reaching the age of ten, you will think about where he will live and will be happy and who will marry etc .. So you must plan for your son's future from now like saving some money to study at a university and do not forget to return to pray in order to succeed in his life
2. Praise your children for no reason or with any small reason
Encouraging your child is something important to believe that you trust him and therefore ideal parents praise their children for no reason sometimes or with any small reason with words such as: well done, excellent etc.
3. They see their children's mistakes as an educational tool
Children are not born to be correct from mistakes All of us make mistakes so you sinned in your life so there is no need to shout and beating and panic for any mistake seen by children but forgive him in case he did not repeat it because the child will learn from this error
4. Openness with your children
Opening up with your children is a good thing to see if your child has problems or something that bothers him, but he will also be happy to know that you care about his problems and will come to you every time.
5. Do not speak false promises
False promises are something that saddens children a lot and lies on them so parents should not say promises to their children unless they are confident that they are capable of 100%
6. Do not hit their children hit my body
The beating of children and their skin on their skins and faces is not humane. If the blows are very strong and hurt the child, your child will hate you very much. Nothing is hated by children more than beatings, especially beatings without care, no matter what you hit, you do not care about him or his feelings so ideal parents do not beat their children
7. Do not pray for them
For example, some mothers when they want to get their son to school, for example, say to him: People have resurrection, and this is wrong because the call of the mother is responsive and will also give the impression that the child to pray It is a normal thing and does not do any harm so avoid praying on your children
8. Not to shy away from their children in front of the children of people
The shyness of your child in front of people gives him the impression that he is a failure. Therefore, you should avoid embarrassing your child in front of people, but you should be proud of him. Shame often comes from these things: lack of child learning, This does not make the child the culprit, but makes his parents the culprits
9. Not to watch them too severe
Watching your child is a good thing to know his problems, but watching him a lot may harm his personality so avoid watching very severe for your child and avoid checking everything that belongs to him and granted freedom agreed upon the law of Islam by his life
10. Do you and make evil companions come close to your son
Bad companions and what are bad companions are simply people who do not know their future well do not care about their studies or their health or their life or morals or religion or anything that occurs to your mind Vhzrh that your son lost the flower of youth with them Beware of bad companions that close to your son bad companions will make your son not Pray, do not fear his Lord, do not respect from the front and even his mother etc .. There is more of these ugly things bad companions are your son's way of life bad so be aware of your son regarding the bad companions and their dimensions even if the anger, the latter you do not want only his interest

• 18 May, 2018
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