What does the Muslim husband want in the wife of the future?

Many couples doubt me from their wives. My wife is selfish, my wife has many requests, my wife does not care about religious duties, my wife is not educated enough, my wife is causing problems, and many of these complaints, which will make marital life miserable. But if we look at the reality, we find that the mistake started from the same husband, but why?

Because the husband himself did not check the details of the wife who will share his life and will be responsible for organizing his life and raising his children. And even the wife's mistakes may be made by the husband himself, the husband will be the same cause of causing such errors and problems and may be the husband of those who exaggerate the wife's errors and forget the pros and make the grain dome and build of the normal behavior, illusions and corrupt suspicions and unjustified.
On the other hand, our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that the deficiency and wariness of the nature of women, and the man should improve women whatever their actions, he said peace be upon him: "Ask women good, the woman created from rib, Above, if you go to make it broken, and if you leave it is not scorned, Vstosoa good women "(Agreed).
Well, here are a few tips on what a Muslim husband wants in his future wife:
Set your goal of marriage:
Unfortunately, some men see marriage as a physical desire only, while others see it as a way of procreating and boasting a large number of children. Some see marriage as an opportunity for domination and leadership and a proportion of men. You see in marriage a way to woo the soul and increase the blackness of the believers .. Well dear reader Vtltkawi with me this verse:
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): "And among His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, to dwell in them, and to make between you affection and mercy.
Glory to the same religion raised your hands:
The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "The woman is married to four: for her money, for her money, for her beauty, for her religion,
Friendly and friendly:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Do not I tell you about your wives from the people of Paradise?"
Soft soft softness:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Shall I not tell you who is forbidden to fire?
Obedience obedience:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If a woman has intercourse with her five months, and she fasts her month,
Tahra chaste:
It was said the mother of the believers Aisha, may Allah be pleased with which women better? She said: You do not know the defect of the article, and do not guide the macho men, empty heart except for adornment Baalha, and to maintain maintenance on its people.
Good ethics and patience:
Dear husband you want who you will share your life to have something patience for it will patient you and the troubles of life and your children.
Convergence:
Do not marry a woman who is completely opposite to you in taste, drink, clothing and interest because the more your habits and interests are the same, the stronger your happiness and the chances of success of marriage.
But dear man, you and these:
The Arabs said: Do not deny women six: neither selfish nor affectionate, nor affectionate nor indulge in friendship, nor glamor, nor friendship.

• 10 Apr, 2018
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